On the stage of love and affection, our past traumas often hold the leading role, dictating the steps we take in our present relationships. The disapproval we experienced as a child remains as a persistent undercurrent, shaping the contours of our romantic lives, leaving us trapped in an endlessly painful cycle of seeking validation and fearing rejection.

In this short blog post, I introduce you to "Clarissa," a client whose journey mirrors the struggles of many women who are navigating the complicated labyrinth of love and approval.  Clarissa was raised within a family culture of conditional love and constant scrutiny. As a result, her fear of disapproval permeated every facet of her romantic adult relationships, driving her to desperate lengths to avoid criticism and seek approval.

As I unravel Clarissa's story, we uncover the profound impact of childhood wounds on adult attachments. Let's now delve into the realities of childhood trauma and explore how somatic healing offers a beacon of hope for women seeking liberation from the hurt of their past.