Childhood Scars, Adult Wounds: Healing the Impact of Disapproval on Love

On the stage of love and affection, our past traumas often hold the leading role, dictating the steps we take in our present relationships. The disapproval we experienced as a child remains as a persistent undercurrent, shaping the contours of our romantic lives, leaving us trapped in an endlessly painful cycle of seeking validation and fearing rejection.

In this short blog post, I introduce you to "Clarissa," a client whose journey mirrors the struggles of many women who are navigating the complicated labyrinth of love and approval.  Clarissa was raised within a family culture of conditional love and constant scrutiny. As a result, her fear of disapproval permeated every facet of her romantic adult relationships, driving her to desperate lengths to avoid criticism and seek approval.

As I unravel Clarissa's story, we uncover the profound impact of childhood wounds on adult attachments. Let's now delve into the realities of childhood trauma and explore how somatic healing offers a beacon of hope for women seeking liberation from the hurt of their past.

Read More